I have
learned that life isn’t easy for any of us. Every single person I meet is
struggling. I have learned that if I can’t help lessen someone’s pain, I will
try my best not to let anyone increase it too. I have learned that once in a
while, I will lose everything. Even the will to carry on living. And only if I don’t
give up then, will I be able to honour the gift of life. I have learned that it’s
okay to be angry, but it’s never okay to be cruel. I have learned that, it’s okay to be sad. But
it is never okay to let sadness take control of my life. I have learned that
even if I am suffering at the moment, even if I don’t know why I have to go
through all this, there will be a day when all this will end. After all nothing
lasts forever, not even our lives.
I have
learned that death is hard, for the one who left us, and even harder for those
left behind. I have learned that losing someone is like losing a body part.
Even after we are treated, there will be a wound. I have learned that in the
end, every wound will heal but there will always be a scar to remind us of it
all. I have learned that eventually I will be able to live with the scar. I
have learned that there will be a time in everyone’s life, when they’ll lose
everything. From friends to family. And it’s then that we’ll have to close our
eyes and keep moving, because in the end those who love us will always come
back, and those who don’t, will not. I have learned that after someone saves my
life, I owe it to them. No matter what.
I have
learned that every single person who makes me cry is going to pay for it, i don’t
have to worry about it. I don’t have to punish them. I don’t have the right to
do that. I have learned that no matter how sad I am, I should always keep it in
mind that it is no ones duty to cheer me up or to take care of me. And those
who cheer me up, do it out of their love for me not out of any obligation. I
have learned that everything will be okay in the end.
I have
learned that I have a long life ahead, and I have a lot more to learn.
It's just not explainable to tell what it feels to read each new blog-post of yours n seeing a more n more mature writer every single time...I don't think I'll ever grow tired of saying "beautiful writing", cz that's the closest adjective I cn find.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes indeed, "the ones who stay by you in sadness do so out of their love for you, not out of any obligation." Stay Blessed :)